A few days ago, F3 to go to a piano contest, without rankings. I was very happy. She is learning to for two years, many of the students in their teacher, let her go to the game, is in itself an encouraging. F3 teachers have ahead of us, lessons from two United States brother and sister, say you learn time, she is more than twice times, watching her progress much faster!
I later found that teacher selection to match the four students, either Chinese or Korea men. Parents of the two cultures, are ambitious for one's children, on children's education very seriously children learn violin, parents have a tight hold on. Repeating over and over again to urge the children learn violin "China Mama" in the United States among the young people's minds, has become one of Facebook's negative image. United States parent is more loose, mainly is to allow children to cultivate an interest in General, so usually practice using less. However, once the United States children generate their own interest, worshipof, it will be very great potential.
When I and some friends of science and technology exchanges, also heard that a similar phenomenon. People often say that Chinese students mathematics well, I heard that United States students really sink into the, is doing very well. If they go to school, are mostly from the interest, not like some of our students (certainly not all), is due to participate in the Olympics that year winning, or because of hard work and good scholarship. This study abroad beyond frustration, but not necessarily, there is no personal choice of responsibility. After all, it is a matter of interest.
We let children learn music, hoping that they form a hobby for a long time. People need to give yourself a promotion of literature and art, so do not escape, unless you think reality is eating Lazarus. We as human beings, have an obligation to life beyond the level of beasts, or what is interesting about the live? F3 teacher is a very good education, and for his teaching piano passion. I once heard him say, you now have a good training in the future this will be your enjoyment of life. This is the essence of a person to learn music. The teacher always the children to love their play, and was quite successful. His students are happy geo-no learning has been through much bitterness. Of course, I'm not saying how happy just to play how to play, if there is potential for the development of not to develop, it is a regret. Overcoming challenges in learning, stretching himself, itself is fun. But we have to accept a reality, most of the children will become ordinary people. I think I can accept that. Long Ping Estate, after all, rare (in fact I do not like), most of the children, is to make music after all, as a lifelong hobby. Our Chinese parents, always with a "not successful you die for a righteous cause" attitude so that children learn a thing, too much pressure, counterproductive. Long Ping Estate in cultivation this way each one, I do not know how much was destroyed Long Ping Estate, of the other. I know each of parents, almost all children to learn a musical instrument, this is a very good thing. Let the music became a part of the quality. When future reunions, family banquet when the town cultural festival of time, can not find a few people, can form a small band performances, rather than come with knew drinking and playing mahjong. If so, do not also very well? Don't pull anything to get ahead.
Now say that interest might seem commonplace. But when children childhood, really can't underestimate the effect of interest. This interest may affect their life. Of our parents, but to provide a resource, in the course of their exploration, find lifelong loving things. And we by can do of maximum of torn, is children originally also a bit interest, results was we in "are is for Hello" of excuse Xia, so forced so forced, results produced has "immune", numb, tired, even converse, last is interest of sparks also was fight has, that they adult yihou, but than like I such of cattle people (casting pearls before swine of cattle)--heard wonderful of music, although does not out why, but can really like of. MO to all childhood, became engaged in a game, let your child slave. I even the peaks seen on Twitter for some very interesting things: a small boy in second grade, school work, often to be 11 or 12 o'clock, dare not to sleep, only doing cry results family cry on each other's shoulder.
Child's school had a slogan: Childhood is a journey, not a race. (Childhood is a journey, not a game. ) Now, parents said children must not be allowed to lose at every turn in the starting line. But we have thought about that, maybe we are wrong? Maybe childhood did not start yet? Children tend to run around in and missed childhood.
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